Comments on: 10 (More) Things You Should Know About Xyzha http://www.fubargenre.com/2007/08/02/10-more-things-you-should-know-about-xyzha/ taking the bar out of fubar Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:45:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Yan http://www.fubargenre.com/2007/08/02/10-more-things-you-should-know-about-xyzha/#comment-266 Yan Mon, 06 Aug 2007 17:28:50 +0000 http://www.fubargenre.com/2007/08/02/10-more-things-you-should-know-about-xyzha/#comment-266 Ta Yang, I never bullied Xyzha. Teased her mercilessly, perhaps. But isn't that what all sisters do? :lol: I think #10 may have something to do with the fact that she is always being compared to her sisters. I did not mean to set the bar high. In fact, I didn't even try. But things are the way things are. You know what I mean. Plus, our Mom, for all her lovable qualities, tends to demand too much from her daughters. Failure is never tolerated. Mistakes are always punished. etc. etc. You know how it goes.(We still love you, mommy! :) ) The end result is that all three of us will always crave for approval and attention, no matter how old we get. The goal, really, is to stop letting this constant ache for approval define our concept of self. ...To live our lives without always needing affirmation from anyone but ourselves. I haven't even gotten to that point yet. How much more Xyzha? That being said, I think Xyzha knows just how special she is. We're slowly getting to that point, aren't we, Xy? :D Ta Yang, I never bullied Xyzha. Teased her mercilessly, perhaps. But isn’t that what all sisters do? :lol:

I think #10 may have something to do with the fact that she is always being compared to her sisters. I did not mean to set the bar high. In fact, I didn’t even try. But things are the way things are. You know what I mean.

Plus, our Mom, for all her lovable qualities, tends to demand too much from her daughters. Failure is never tolerated. Mistakes are always punished. etc. etc. You know how it goes.(We still love you, mommy! :) )

The end result is that all three of us will always crave for approval and attention, no matter how old we get.

The goal, really, is to stop letting this constant ache for approval define our concept of self. …To live our lives without always needing affirmation from anyone but ourselves.

I haven’t even gotten to that point yet. How much more Xyzha?

That being said, I think Xyzha knows just how special she is. We’re slowly getting to that point, aren’t we, Xy? :D

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So Xy, you have to overcome that. You have to see beyond the mirror that you are as beautiful inside. No one can let you see it. You have to see it for yourself. And you have to accept your imperfections whatever you think they are. Only then can you truly feel being beautiful.

Take it from me Xy. Sa akong pagka-kagiron and with really big legs, I can still strut in the mall wearing my shorts. hehehe… my legs have always been the root of my insecurities.

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